Solo vanning

Isla38 replied on 08/05/2018 21:51

Posted on 08/05/2018 21:51

Hi,My dear wife has recently passed away and initially I was going to sell the caravan,a Bailey Verona that weve had from new for a year but hardly used due to her illness. Im thinking of trying to use it alone but really like an awning to eat in . I have thought of a windout awning fitted by dealer with a privacy room,are there any alternatives. Am also interested in meetups, not for dating ,after 47 years of marriage Im well past that but company would be nice.

Thanks for bearing with me this far

ggregu replied on 09/05/2018 07:14

Posted on 09/05/2018 07:14

I tend to caravan solo for a lot of the time as my partner is self employed and doesn't have the holiday amounts that I do. I have an air awning, a Kampa Air Pro 390 which I can easily put up myself with the side sections zipped out to reduce weight.

There is a Solos diary section on here where people tend to post dates with others welcome to join in. 

Ive found no difficulties, even as a solo female, which would prevent me from enjoying my trips. People often offer to help if they see you are on your own. I always tow anyway as the car and van are both mine!

Give yourself time to come to terms with your new situation then try a short trip to see how you manage. Don't make any rash decisions at this stage which you may regret later.

Im sorry for your loss and hope that continuing the activity you both shared may give you some peace.

Best wishes,

Gill

replied on 09/05/2018 07:51

Posted on 09/05/2018 07:51

I lost my wife when We were both 43. I would recommend joining a social group. I did not feel a need for company but once my youngest daughter turned 16 and had a life of her own I started to feel that life was pointless and that I should give to others in some way. I did so by running a singles group and giving enjoyment to others many of whom had lost partners or been divorced in their late forties or early fifties.  

Social contact can make life more meaningful. I have single friends in their seventies who have joined local 'Meet Up' groups. They go to pub quiz nights, walks, day trips, meals and other social events and there are many of a similar age doing so.

Check out  https://www.meetup.com and see what groups are in your area. Nothing to loose.

Certainly meeting up with other solo caravanners would be worthwhile.

 

Tracy123 replied on 09/05/2018 10:17

Posted on 09/05/2018 10:17

Hi BR,

I am so sorry to hear about your wife.

A lot of our Members that travel alone meet up and they have just renamed their group as The New Horizons Camping Club. There is an update on page 16 of our May magazine and you can find more information on their website New Horizons.

Take care

Tracy

Isla38 replied on 09/05/2018 17:19

Posted on 09/05/2018 17:19

Thanks all for the input. I wasn' aware there was an air awning with zip out panels I tried a friend' and it was so heavy on my own. I'l have a little browse around

regards

ggregu replied on 09/05/2018 22:48

Posted on 09/05/2018 22:48

With the front and back panels out, I can easily run mine through the rail. You might want to look at one of the electric pumps too as inflating can be tiring. Plug it into your car socket and get on with something else whilst it inflates.

Theres usually an answer for most situations I find. Good luck! Let us know how you get on.

Gill

Biggarmac replied on 10/05/2018 17:26

Posted on 10/05/2018 17:26

Sorry for your loss.  After my husband died I continued caravanning for 4 years, but have now changed to a motorhome.  It is a very different way to camp and you need to be fit enough to walk and cycle to make it enjoyable.

I joined a couple of the single camping groups but have found the New Companions Camping club the one with most options.  They are welcoming and have meets all over the UK and many of them go abroad for the winter.

newcompanions.org.uk

Meg

Daisy3 replied on 10/05/2018 19:58

Posted on 10/05/2018 19:58

BR, really sad to read of your loss but think it's great that you are still thinking of pursuing the camping lifestyle you chose together.

I'm new to caravanning having recently switched from a MH.  Strictly speaking I'm not a solo camper these days as I have my child with me, but I am the only adult.  Our van is very little so wanted an awning to give us a bit more room but not only limited in size due to size of van, but also as concerned about putting it up solo.  So I went for the Kampa Rally Air Pro 200.  Measures 2m by 2.5m.  Front and side panels can zip out, and you can fit a mesh panel at the front.  One trip away and I was really pleased.  Getting it into the rail was challenging but once I discovered "the knack" it was fine even with all panels in place.  Rest of process was really easy.  Happily fits our 2 chairs, little table, airing rack and shoe boxes with room to spare. Tbh even if we had a bigger van for a bigger awning I would stick with this as very manageable single handed.  Depends how much room you want but one of the smaller porch awnings might be worth considering.

Daisy

Isla38 replied on 12/05/2018 10:11

Posted on 12/05/2018 10:11

Seems Im not the only one alone. Daisy,thats all I need for space,I really just want to eat in awning if its not really cold and get out of the bad weather before opening up the van.

I'll definate;y look into the range and measure up where the windows are and an electric pump would be essential now.

Thanks for the encouragement

 

Pippah45 replied on 15/05/2018 11:36

Posted on 15/05/2018 11:36

Welcome BR and condolences.  There are plenty of Solo vanners out there and good friendships to be made if you join one of the several groups.  I believe Air Awnings are much heavier than the old fashioned sort.  I have tried a Fiamma awning of the side of the caravan and quite liked it but now my fingers are getting too old to roll it up.  I have a porch awning that is a reasonable one to handle.  However last weekend I was looking at all the Canopy type ones on site.  As far as I could see none of those had a front.  Best of luck and enjoy.  

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