Elizabeth is Missing

DavidKlyne replied on 09/12/2019 00:05

Posted on 09/12/2019 00:05

BBC 1 tonight. A hard watch but a quite riveting performance by Glenda Jackson, former star of Women in Love, an MP for some years and now in her eighties. Its based on a book by Emma Healey. The main character is Maud (Glenda Jackson) who is struggling with Alzheimer’s. The story revolves around two time periods, one when she was young when her sister went missing and the second in the present day when she can't find her friend. In many ways its the difference in the sharpness of mind that she can remember what happened when she was young contrasted with the confusion and anger of not being able to remember what is happen in the present time. It is not an easy watch and for those you have had love ones who suffered the same condition it will be quite poignant.

David

peedee replied on 09/12/2019 06:55

Posted on 09/12/2019 06:55

A well acted thought provoking drama which somehow was quite gripping in a quite different way. My MIL died with dementia and my FIL is going the same way and cannot look after himself.

peedee

cyberyacht replied on 09/12/2019 08:32

Posted on 09/12/2019 08:32

A bit of a harrowing watch. A caravanning friend from our local church has recently had to place his wife in a nursing home, having struggled with her increasing dementia over the past couple of years. Depressing to think that it may be hitting some of us at some stage.

moulesy replied on 09/12/2019 10:53

Posted on 09/12/2019 10:53

I remember recommending the book on the "good reads" section.

I thought it was superbly done - very harrowing for anyone who's had to watch a relative suffer from that dreadful disease and certainly darker, as far as I can recall, from the book which had many humorous interludes. An excellent performance from the two leading actors. 

It's the sort of thought-provoking drama which the BBC does so we'll,  just like the earlier one on the same theme with Alison Steadman in the leading role.

For anyone who hasn't seen it, do try and catch it on iPlayer - there won't be many better ways of spending 90 minutes! smile

mickysf replied on 09/12/2019 11:47

Posted on 09/12/2019 11:47

Not an enjoyable watch at all but compelling and thought provoking non the less. Like many others we have experience of this awful condition in our family. My memory isn't quiet what it was either. Aspects of this growing old thing are not brilliant I'm afraid. Live life now!

SeasideBill replied on 09/12/2019 12:28

Posted on 09/12/2019 12:28

Haven’t seen it yet, but will based on recommendations here. Like many, also have personal experience of watching my MIL slowly succumb and die. Same situation now with my own mother aged 89. I’ll be interested to see how it deals with the emotional and financial stress created for all concerned. 

Tammygirl replied on 09/12/2019 16:01

Posted on 09/12/2019 16:01

Very difficult viewing for me as its not long since my Mum who suffered with Dementia died.

I thought it was the best I'd seen dementia portrayed, so many programmes try and get it totally wrong.

Last nights programme was heart wrenching but an excellent performance by Glenda Jackson.

brue replied on 09/12/2019 17:20

Posted on 09/12/2019 17:20

I couldn't watch it due to my late Mum and her memory loss although it wasn't Alzheimer's it was similar. I do hope the story gave some insight.

If anyone is struggling with a family member I found the Alzheimer's society web site very helpful, in fact I and my sister had printed sheets to remind us how to respond in certain situations and although always out of sight they were a good back up. smile

SeasideBill replied on 10/12/2019 12:41

Posted on 10/12/2019 12:41

If, like me, you were planning on watching this on iPlayer and you’re unlucky enough to own a Samsung ‘smart’ TV, be aware that BBC have made some recent changes to iPlayer which are not supported by Samsung software so it doesn’t work anymore. Seems that my 5 year smart TV is now a dumb TV! Thank you BBC, bloody annoying!

Still available on the iPad tho.

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