My husband died.Scared of touring alone.

bozzer replied on 08/04/2018 10:03

Posted on 08/04/2018 10:03

My husband died very suddenly last year. we were relatively new to touring in our little "tin can" as he called it, we had only been touring about 4 years, and the furthest we went from home was Edinburgh.

The dream was to tour the whole of the united kingdom... my dream anyway! John was happy just skipping to the east coast / Filey, for a few days. We absolutely loved  our little van and it  became our sanctuary.

I know he would want me to carry on touring , but I'm afraid of heading out on the open road alone.. I did most of the towing so that isn't an issue, and I I'm quite practical, its just a daunting though going alone.

I know that on club sites there will always be someone around to lend a hand if I get in to trouble, its just the getting there that scares me. Are there any other ladies out there that tow alone? 

Can I , should I, do it?

 

Extugger replied on 10/04/2018 14:10

Posted on 10/04/2018 12:56 by vivien

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Posted on 10/04/2018 14:10

Thanks for posting this Vivien, I didn't know it existed, or what it looked like, but as a previous poster has stated, will endeavour to make contact with whoever displays it on sites that we use.

Happy travels laughing

 

bozzer replied on 10/04/2018 19:08

Posted on 10/04/2018 19:08

I've booked a service for next weekend, hopefully everything will be ok.

I bought a tyre pressure ...thingy too? It plugs in to the car, but not sure how it works? I'll work it out tho, it can't be that difficult! 

Thanks to everyone again for all your kind comments. I really do feel part of a community. 

Navigateur replied on 10/04/2018 20:51

Posted on 10/04/2018 20:51

I'll work it out tho, it can't be that difficult!

You've got it!  That's exacly what to do. If you think there is something you might have difficulty with "en route" have a think and work out what would need to be done, and how much of it you would do yourself.  You may find you want to buy a few bits and pieces and small tools you may not have already.

If you can't see how to do something, just ask on the forum, and plenty of people will be able to make suggestions. Whatever it is, someone will have done it before.

If you do have to contact Mayday, remember to tell them that you are travelling alone as they will prioritise the response.

EdB replied on 11/04/2018 11:20

Posted on 11/04/2018 11:20

Lost my wife just a few months ago after 53 years. I suppose it is much easier for a man but only realise now how much I relied on her. I have now booked sandringham ccc for next week. Whitby in May and most frightening ccc German tour in September. So as everyone says, it's not easy but just do it. 

 

Eddie

West Yorkshire motorhomer

 

Extugger replied on 11/04/2018 12:01

Posted on 11/04/2018 12:01

Eddie

You'll probably find the Germany tour the easiest of the lot, the roads and facilities being much better.

Good on you for carrying on touring and although there'll be a very big part of your life missing, do let us know how you get on laughing

Lin C replied on 12/04/2018 17:54

Posted on 12/04/2018 17:54

Hi all.

I’m new to your Solo Group.

I lost my husband within a year of buying our new caravan in early 2015. We were so looking forward to touring the UK and Europe. I still love the van and have been to sites with family and friends but it would be good to meet with folks in the same position I find myself, that understand the loss & how hard it is to go on.

I live in West Sussex. I love the Herstmonceux site at Battle, the New Forest, Corfe, Wareham if any meets are at these sites. Not adverse to trying others.

Lin

 

vivien replied on 13/04/2018 00:31

Posted on 12/04/2018 22:11 by triky auto

wink  ,Hi meat' consult the 'solo's ' list of outing's ..Maybe there's one you fancy going to  ??

Posted on 13/04/2018 00:31

It would be good also to hear from anyway who have booked site as well!  The ones on Diary Dates are actually a few I will be going to!

you can email me your dates and sites so I can add them to the List at

saffiepickles@gmail.com

Biggarmac replied on 16/04/2018 13:54

Posted on 16/04/2018 13:54

Hi Bozzer.  Glad you will be going away soon.  After my husband died over 7 years ago I kept caravanning but after 5 years I changed to a motorhome.  My dog and I love both caravanning and motorhoming.  I have found the New Companions Camping Club to be good as it has meets all over the country and abroad.  I have just come back from wintering in Spain and meet up with lots of other solo campers in my travels.

All the best for a good summer to all other solo travellers.

SueBT replied on 28/02/2019 15:31

Posted on 08/04/2018 10:03 by bozzer

My husband died very suddenly last year. we were relatively new to touring in our little "tin can" as he called it, we had only been touring about 4 years, and the furthest we went from home was Edinburgh.

The dream was to tour the whole of the united kingdom... my dream anyway! John was happy just skipping to the east coast / Filey, for a few days. We absolutely loved  our little van and it  became our sanctuary.

I know he would want me to carry on touring , but I'm afraid of heading out on the open road alone.. I did most of the towing so that isn't an issue, and I I'm quite practical, its just a daunting though going alone.

I know that on club sites there will always be someone around to lend a hand if I get in to trouble, its just the getting there that scares me. Are there any other ladies out there that tow alone? 

Can I , should I, do it?

 

Posted on 28/02/2019 15:31

Hi, just logged onto  this site, similar situation, widowed 18months ago. The caravan went and I now have a campervan, me and the dog get around quite a lot but sometimes it would be nice to have some company. I am based in Staffordshire.

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